“Imagine for a moment: people throughout the world equipped to communicate, not just talk . . . to listen, not to “win” but to create in themselves that which exists in others . . . to even disagree but without enmity and instead with relationship-saving connections of empathy. If you like that dream, get this book and start making that happen.”

—Dr. Michael Bradley, best-selling author of Crazy Stressed: Saving Today’s Overwhelmed Teens with Love, Laughter and the Science of Resilience

“Effective communication forms the cornerstone of thriving relationships. Dr. Deborah Stern generously shares insights gleaned from years of therapeutic experience with countless individuals grappling with feelings of discord and disconnection in their relationships on account of unhealthy communication patterns. Through this book, readers gain invaluable insights into various communication styles and practical techniques to enhance their relationships. As a mental health professional, educator, and advocate, I wholeheartedly endorse this book and plan to integrate its teachings into my work with families and fellow professionals. I cannot emphasize enough the value of this resource.”

—Audrey Grunst, LCSW, CEO of Simply Bee, Author of “5 Steps to Grow a Resilient Mind”, Podcast Host for “Well, Not Perfect”, speaker, named one of Top Women Leaders of Illinois for 2023

“For anyone who has ever thought of what they should have said, really wanted to say, or wished they’d said differently after a hard conversation, Dr. Stern has created the guide you need to read before you set out to communicate on difficult topics in the future with the people who matter most to you.”

—Deborah Gilboa, MD, Resilience Expert and Associate Professor, University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine

“As a practicing psychologist, I have many relationship and communication books on my shelves, but I’m glad to now have Debbie Stern’s book in hand. This is because Dr. Stern’s book does what the others do not: It provides readers not only with a thorough understanding of how and why they communicate as they do but also offers them a host of self-reflection prompts, practice activities, and accessible anecdotes and examples. Readers will find themselves better understanding how to communicate assertively in their daily lives, while also improving their listening skills and their ability to connect with others. This is a rare and much needed resource!”

—Mitch Abblet, PhD, Psychologist, and author of the Nautilus Gold Award–Winning book Prizeworthy

“Once you acquire the wisdom, insights and incredibly fabulous tips from Dr. Stern’s carefully designed and effective Share-Hear-Care model, you will be shouting from the rooftops for everyone you know to grab and read a copy of Communicating Courageously! This is truly the best book on communication and is a must-read for anyone who has ever wanted to improve their connection in close relationships through effective communication.” 

—Susan Dubin, Writer

“Debbie Stern lays out a wonderful, practical blueprint for families or anyone looking to systematically improve their communication skills. With practical tips for self-regulation and coregulation of strong emotions, those in conflict will come to peaceful resolution through courageous communication methods she offers.”

—Christopher Willard, Ph.D., Harvard Medical School Faculty, Author, Psychologist, Consultant